Congrats to you all, me and my wife will celebrate 14yrs together in Dec. My wife already had 3 boys when we met, we don't have any children "of our own" so to speak, but her boys are MY boys, and we have 3 GREAT grandchildren to show for all the ups and downs we went through together with them. I LOVE spoiling the hell out of my grandkids, and then sending them home
. It's what good grandparents are for.